Marriage!
Free dating is another thing and getting into a serious relationship is another. In a strong marriage communication plays a huge role to hold a relationship together.
We often feel disappointed at our partners due to numerous reasons, but the love and affection we share overcomes all downsides. Feelings must be shared with the partner. Never keep anything in your mind.
Make sure you get the thought accross to your life partner, this will only help strenghten your bond and will help you in the future.